An engagement ring is more than a piece of jewelry - it’s a lasting symbol of your love story. And with each chapter you create, your ring travels through with you.
So why settle for something that’s simply “off the shelf”?
Custom engagement rings are growing in popularity as couples seek ways to make their rings as unique and personal as their relationships.
Whether it’s a distinctive center stone, a meaningful engraving, or a trending three-stone design, customization allows you to create a ring that truly reflects your style and story.
At Ben Garelick, we specialize in helping you design engagement rings that feel like they were made just for you - because they are.
Let’s explore the most popular custom features and why they’re worth considering.
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Customizing The Center Stone
Your center stone is the star of your engagement ring (just like you and your betrothed are the stars of your love story), and customizing it offers endless possibilities.
Many couples ask if they can opt for a different shape or size of diamond.
Alternative shapes like oval and pear are on the rise, while round remains a classic favorite.
Lab-grown diamonds are another frequent request, offering the same sparkle as mined diamonds with a smaller environmental footprint.
For those seeking something more colorful, sapphires are the most requested gemstone alternative, followed by rubies and emeralds.
Expert Tips For Customizing The Center Stone
When choosing a center stone, it’s essential to consider both durability and aesthetics.
Diamonds and sapphires score high on the Mohs scale of hardness, making them ideal for daily wear.
While emeralds and opals score lower and are not ideal for everyday wear and tear, they can still be a beautiful choice with the right care and setting.
Another common option is people opting for lab-grown diamonds instead of mined diamonds.
Choosing Alternative Metals
The choice of metal can completely transform the look of your ring, and couples are becoming more adventurous in their selections.
White gold remains a staple, but yellow gold and rose gold are making a strong comeback.
Two-tone gold combinations are also trending, offering a modern yet timeless aesthetic.
Platinum, known for its durability and hypoallergenic properties, continues to be a top choice for those seeking luxury.
When selecting a metal, think about your skin tone, lifestyle, and how the metal complements your center stone.
From classic to contemporary, the right metal choice can elevate your ring (and your marriage) to a masterpiece.
Band Width and Shank Customizations
The width of your band and the design of the shank (the part that wraps around your finger) are often-overlooked details that can make a significant impact.
Trends: Thinner bands are in vogue right now, adding a delicate, modern touch. However, some prefer wider bands for added durability and comfort.
European-style shanks (squared bottoms) are a trending request, offering a distinctive look and improved stability.
For a more traditional design, a round shank is still a popular choice.
Consider how the band and shank will feel and look on your hand. Comfort is just as important as style.
Side Diamond Preferences
Side diamonds can enhance the sparkle and style of your ring, but the options are nearly limitless.
Couples often ask to adjust the number, shape, or size of the side diamonds.
Lab-grown diamonds are increasingly requested as an alternative to mined diamonds.
Some opt to add or remove halos, creating a more tailored look.
Expert Tips For Side Diamonds
Side diamonds should enhance your center stone without overpowering it. Subtle changes can make a big difference in the overall design.
For more information on choosing the perfect diamonds, check out our educational resources.
Adjusting The Center Diamond Setting
The setting of your center diamond plays a critical role in both its appearance and functionality.
Many couples ask to lower the center diamond for better practicality and protection.
While this adjustment is possible, it’s important to manage expectations - lowering a diamond can only go so far without compromising the design.
To preserve your ring’s longevity, always remove it during physical activities and store it in a safe place at night.
A well-set diamond not only sparkles brighter, but also ensures the longevity of your custom design.
Custom Engravings
Engravings add a layer of intimacy to your engagement ring, making it uniquely yours.
From names and dates to special phrases, the possibilities for engraving rings are endless.
Couples often choose messages that hold personal meaning, such as a shared mantra or a line from their favorite song.
An engraved ring is a constant reminder of your love story, carried with you every day.
How Long Do Custom Engagement Rings Take?
When it comes to custom engagement rings, timing is everything.
Most custom orders take several weeks, depending on the complexity of the design. Planning ahead is crucial to avoid last-minute stress.
If you’re working toward a specific proposal date, aim to place your order at least 4-6 weeks in advance.
This ensures there’s enough time for adjustments and final touches.
At Ben Garelick, we’re committed to meeting your timeline without compromising on quality.
Newly Trending Custom Requests
Customization trends are always evolving, and couples are finding creative ways to make their rings stand out.
Claw prongs, thinner bands, and unusual diamond shapes for side stones are just a few of the latest requests.
Removing or adding halos, switching to two-tone metals, or opting for bold, colored gemstones are other ways couples are elevating their designs.
Why choose Ben Garelick: With years of expertise and a passion for innovation, we can turn even the most unique requests into reality.
Don't Leave Your Dream Ring To Chance
Your engagement ring is more than just jewelry - it’s a reflection of your love story.
By customizing your ring, you create a piece that’s truly one of a kind, designed to capture your journey together.
At Ben Garelick, we’re here to help you every step of the way.
From selecting the perfect stone to finalizing the details, we take pride in delivering rings that exceed expectations.
We also offer complimentary CADs (computer-rendered designs) of your ring within 48 hours, and most of the time, we can get it to you within 24 hours.
Already have an idea in mind? You can submit your design request, and a Ben Garelick design specialist will reach out to you to bring your vision to life.
Ready to design your dream ring? Book a consultation today and let us bring your vision to life.
